by Eglantine des Rosier » Fri Mar 03, 2017 11:51 pm
Eglantine raised an eyebrow at the tirade. She waited patiently for a pause before responding.
"I think you mistake me. While I would welcome the good wives of Bath should they have an interest in coming, the women I was referring to work. They are the nurses and the secretaries, the women of education and perhaps breeding, although that is hardly necessary, but with little wealth, the unmarried and perhaps the unmarriageable. Those women whom I have often found make up for any refinement they may be lacking through passion and kindness." There was a faint note of disapproval in her tone at his judgement. "I would ask also that you consider what it is to be a wife, something I doubt you have experienced, before disparaging women for seeking the security in such a position and consider the scarcity of alternatives available to them."
It was all very well for men to judge women for living off the hard work of their husbands, never knowing what it was to be a wife, any wife, and to belong to a man by law so completely that there was nothing left of themselves that was truly theirs save what their husbands gave them. It was a state she was not keen to return to, but then what choices were most women given? It was that or playing nurse to ailing fathers, companion to more fortunate sisters, the workhouse, the street, or the life of a prostitute and who would not judge them for that harsh attempt at independence? The world was set against women and it was far easier to point and condemn than to face such trials for oneself. But it was an old anger and one that she was well practiced in keeping in check, despite its depth, and aside from a slight sternness to her voice and a hint of a frown in her features there was little sign of it on her surface.